Photoshoot and New Tours

So, I got some amazing new photos done last week which I am really excited about, I have checked out the proofs and they are seriously amazing. I will be putting them up on my website in the next week or two and I really think that everyone is going to absolutely love them. I cant wait to show them off. I may release a few via twitter prior to putting them on my website. You will have to keep an eye out.

So far I have some tour dates listed on my website so if you are in the towns listed make sure you check out my availability and get your advance bookings and deposits in to secure some time together. I am heading to Darwin, which is a town I haven’t toured before so I am really looking forward to seeing how it goes. I have been to Darwin to visit friends a number of times and have always had a blast when I have visited so I hope its the same this time around.

For the month of June and July I will be visiting a number of places in Western Australia such as – Albany, Margaret River, Geraldton, Karratha, Kununurra, Port Headland and possibly Broome which I will be posting confirmed dates for on the 5th June so make sure you keep an eye out for them, and again advance bookings and deposits will be required.

Once the above tours have been completed I will finally decide which town I want to end up relocating to, because as much as I love Townsville I think its time to have a change in scenery and move somewhere else, I do have a few places in mind, though at the moment it could potentially be either Rockingham in Western Australia or it could end up being somewhere on the south coast of Sydney so I will have to see where I end up. I can never predict these things as I like to move cities every couple of years and I usually just see where the wind takes me!!!

I am looking at some new places in NSW to go on tour that I haven’t tried before but I will decide on those in August and September, so I am always open to some great suggestions, make sure you email me if you have a request as I am always open to ideas.

So make sure you check out my touring page, and give me a call if you want to spend some quality time together and I cant wait to check out some new places I haven’t toured before.

Yes… No…. Maybe – Things I choose not to offer

There are a range of services I get calls about. I am open to a range of different things, and open to doing things that aren’t listed on my list of services. But there are a few that I just choose not to offer for various reasons. There are a couple of  main ones I get asked for that I just refuse to do, they aren’t common requests, but I get enough calls to warrant making it clear that I choose not to do them.

  • The first I get a number of calls about is a threesome with 2 male friends who are looking to do this with me.
    •  – This is a service I choose not to do because I prefer one on one sessions with my client. In my personal life this is something I have tried out, and honestly I can say I really didn’t enjoy the experiences, (and yes there were more then one) and so I can honestly say that doing it with 2 strangers isn’t something I really wish to do. Sorry…….
  • Couple bookings, especially couples hoping I am bisexual
    • Now with couple bookings, I personally choose not to offer them, firstly because I am not bisexual. I am very straight so I prefer to refer you to ladies who are bisexual so that you can get a genuine experience, and the fact is I just feel I cant provide a genuine and enjoyable couples experience. And I also am not a fan of being watched, It makes me feel self conscious which then affects the service im providing, so if you are seeking a couples booking I am happy to refer you to people who love to provide them rather then being the provider.
  • A variety of services without condoms.
    • And lastly being asked to provide services with condoms. I do make it clear throughout my website including doing a few blog posts on why I choose not to provide services without condoms. And telling me that you are clean, have been tested recently or claim I would be the only person you do this with isn’t going to convince me to provide these services to you.. I am sure there are escorts out there who do, and that’s their choice, theres no judgement here its just that for myself personally its not something I choose to do, so please I ask that you respect that I am allowed to have that choice.
  • Greek on me
    • This is a service that I used to provide, but these days I choose not to, partly because I have had enough bad experiences that I just cant get into it enough to want to provide it, but also because unless I have seen you a few times before and feel really comfortable with you, its something I cant get relaxed enough to do with someone I have just met, I tense up and then it just becomes painful and that isn’t fun for anyone. So for the time being its just off the list. If I find myself comfortable enough with you to provide it, I may consider it, but it would come at an extra cost. But please respect my choice to say no.
  • Kissing – French kissing or any kissing on the mouth
    • Sorry to disappoint, but I don’t offer an actual GFE type service, yes I do full service and would like to offer you a variety of sexual services. But for me, Kissing on the mouth is just something I don’t feel comfortable offering. Outside of my professional escort services I do have a personal sex life with lovers, boyfriends, casual sexual partners etc. And so there are a few things, including kissing that I prefer only to do with those in my personal sex life. There are times where I have tried offering to clients things I only do with personal sexual partners outside my escorting and I have found it to affect the quality of my personal sex life which for me is not something I like to compromise on. So I have made the choice that there are just some things that are off limits to my clients… Kissing is one of those things that sorry. So if your looking for a true GFE that involves kissing my service isn’t for you as it isn’t what I offer. Obviously if you want to kiss anywhere on my body that is more then welcome, its just on the mouth that I choose not to have on offer.
  • Lastly, please stop asking me to squirt
    • Squirting isn’t something I can generally do on command, and its something that really rarely happens for me as it is. So it just isn’t on the list of things I am happy to provide or even attempt to try. So please understand when I refuse to provide this. Some can provide it on cue and I am sure there are ladies out there who offer it, but sorry I cant help there.

Now, I am always open to your requests, I am happy to try a variety of things with you, if I haven’t tried them before please chat to me on the phone about what your after and if I haven’t tried it, I will let you know but if your happy to play together and give it a shot I am always open to that. I will always do a little research before our session to make sure I do it properly but it is always fun to experiment.

All I ask is that if I say no to providing a service, please just respect that I choose not to offer it. I may be a sex worker but I am not required to provide anything I am not comfortable with. If I don’t offer what you want to get up to there will always be someone out there who will be happy to do those things with you. For some services I can recommend someone for you others, well not so much but will do my best to help you out. I do have an extensive range of things I offer but I cant cater to absolutely everyone I guess…. Ultimately I am open to suggestions or things you might want to try. But sometimes I do just have to say no. I don’t like to have to explain myself though. If I say I don’t provide it, that should be the end of the discussion.

But on a positive note, there are a number of things I would love to try out with clients that I haven’t so who knows maybe one day they will happen, but I cant give away all my secrets yet, Its always fun to leave with a little mystery. Who knows maybe you will be that gentleman who requests those things……………

 

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Just Me.. Well a bit of an insight to me… For the moment

As you may notice a lot of my posts are about things such as decriminalisation and things to do with sex work or even talking about boundaries and paying deposits and all that fun stuff which I think is important. But I think the occasional insightful post about me as a person and as an escort can be just as important.

Ill be honest, I don’t spend all day sitting around doing nothing while waiting for my phone to ring. It just doesn’t happen. Yes I will make myself available to take your calls and texts but honestly there is so much more to me then that. I am constantly looking for new books to get my hands on and read. I mean if I had to choose my most favourite thing to do in my spare time, it would be to get totally wrapped up in a really awesome book. I have a number of favourite authors who I just love to read. Margaret George actually wrote one of my most well read book – Mary Queen of Scotland and the Isles. I have read it so many times that I have been through a number of copies of it. I am also a huge fan of Matthew Rielly. I find his books hard to put down, its just go go go with them. Lots of action and excitement. Some of my other favourite authors include – Jeffery Archer, Sophie Kinsella, Tess Geritson, and David Eddings. To be honest I could talk for days about my favourite books and I am one who will read them over and over again until they are practically falling apart at the spine. Its so much better then watching a movie. Well at least in my opinion.

Since the day I left my parents home to go out in the world I have always tried to live as close to the ocean as I can, except for that one time I lived in Canberra, But trust me I got out of there as quickly as I could I didn’t stay for all that long. LOL. I love being on the water or swimming at the beach, the smell of the ocean has a calming effect on me. Its relaxing, peaceful, and just the best place to spend your free time. I guess that comes with being an Aquarian. I have spent years working on the ocean before becoming an escort and plan to do it again in the near future. Its the best place to be.

I also love doing volunteer work and fundraising for organisations that are important to me especially within the veteran community as well as in Mental Health and with kids. Im a firm believer that when it comes to doing volunteer work its best to do it at places that are close to your heart and are important to you because it requires love and passion to really fully enjoy and appreciate volunteering and what it can do within the community. If you ever want to support some great organisations Mates4Mates, The Womens Centre (in Townsville), The Smith Family (sponsoring a child to be able to attend school), Headspace and RDA (riding for disabled) are some great organisations that do good things for people in the community.

Before I became an escort my life had its ups and downs, had seen the world, met people from all over the world, and my life as it was, was pretty good. But sometimes things happen in life that you cant change and because of that I had to find something else to do with my life that suited my needs in a variety of ways such as being more flexible, and something I could work around both my physical and mental health needs and that’s how I got into this industry. But I really don’t plan to be here forever, I have other plans, other goals, other things I want to have happen in my life and I am working on it. Its a work in progress and I think that while I have been around for a while, it will be time to leave and move on to new and different things. What those are well, who knows it could be a number of things, I have a few things im sorting out and a few plans in place that will take time to implement.

To be honest my interests are simple. The things that make me happy are simple. I love books, Being by the ocean, Sailing, Travelling, Helping other people, and just leading my life in ways to suit me. It may not seem exciting to some but its what works for me. Occasionally I will love to buy those sexy pair of shoes ill never be able to wear comfortably, or maybe trying something outrageous like skydiving (which I have only done twice and don’t intend on doing again). But honestly I like to keep things simple.

I will be honest in my younger days I was a bit of a wild child, I got into all kinds of trouble, had parties and went to parties (no drugs sorry), did some pretty crazy things, played pranks on my friends (funny stories for another time), and honestly the stories could fill a book. And sometimes I miss those days I was a different person and had a blast and will always have fond memories and possibly even photo and video proof (but we wont discuss that haha) But those days don’t happen much these days… Except maybe once in a blue moon when I am together with some special friends and possibly on holidays like a proper holiday. But these stories are for another day…. Maybe when i old and grey lol.

 

So theres a bit of an insight to me without sharing all my secrets lol. Cant give it all away. I had a long life before escorting that was pretty exciting, stressful, filled with pain and joy, and certainly a life changer but I have also had a great life since then, filled with life lessons, interesting people, and an insight to myself I didn’t have previously.

 

Going on tour this year

So, as you may notice I have listed a number of tours on my website. A few of them have not gone ahead as planned. You may be wondering why. The reason for this is I have made the decision that if I do no get enough interest before the actual dates I am no longer going to take the risk of going on that tour. Because in the past sometimes taking the chance has worked but not all the time.

The reason I advertise these tours in advance is so you have time to call and express your interest in spending time with each other. It also gives you the chance to make a deposit to secure some time in to see me. There is an important reason for asking for these deposits and the reason is that I want to have some guaranteed appointments prior to arriving in town as well as making sure you don’t miss out.

This is the importance of reading my advertising and website properly prior to getting in contact with me. The more advance bookings made the more likely the tour will go ahead. I have written up my deposit policy on my website for you to check out. I have come to the decision of asking for deposits and advance bookings for these tours so that regular clients in these towns don’t miss out, it is also so those who haven’t seen me before but wish to see me don’t miss out on seeing me, because by leaving it to the day I am visiting to call for a time you will either miss out due to being booked out for the day or the potential of the tour not going ahead because people haven’t been willing to commit to making an appointment.

So please, take the time to check out my website, read through it, and make sure you get in touch in advance to arrange some time to meet up in advance because I would love to see you and I don’t want you to miss out on spending some fun time together. I love going on tour, but I have come to the decision that advance bookings and deposits are important to make sure everything runs smoothly and to plan. I don’t like having to cancel tour plans but without advance bookings the tour cant go ahead.

I look forward to hearing from you soon and hopefully we can arrange some good times together and make fun happen together.

xoxoxoxo

 

 

Policies – Payment Methods, Deposits & Sexual Health

 

 

The importance of a Deposit

When going on tour somewhere making a deposit is something I now insist upon. There are a number of reasons for doing so. I know there are many escorts who insist on getting them and I have decided to make it something I do before going on tour as well. There are many costs involved in organising a tour somewhere and so because of that I like to ensure I have a number of guaranteed and secured appointments made before I visit somewhere.

I know that many have various issues with making a deposit and I do understand that so hopefully this post will help you understand why I ask for them. I have been on a few tours of late where I have had people express interest in spending time with me when I get to town, but once I arrive locking a time in with them hasn’t happened. So I decided that for any of my tours to actually go ahead a deposit to lock in a time will be required.

If after making the deposit you change your mind or are unable to attend as long as you give 24 hours notice the deposit will be refunded, if you give less then 24 hours notice for the cancellation the deposit will not be refunded. This is because I am paying for – Flights, accommodation and travel time to visit so I need to make sure that I have a number of genuine booking lined up. If I were to cancel the tour due to personal reasons obviously your deposit is fully refunded.

By making the deposit it means that If I am only in town for a few days, you get first pick of times together and it also ensures that you don’t miss out on spending time together. Because those who pay deposits always get first priority and first pick before anyone who makes last minute bookings. It also helps to make sure the tour goes ahead as scheduled and I don’t have to cancel it.

Again I do understand why many are hesitant in paying the deposits I really do. But I want you to understand why I ask for them and to understand that my required deposit is usually $50 to $100 into my ANZ Bank account which is taken off the amount you have to pay me for  when we spend our time together. This decision to ask for deposits prior to going on tour hasn’t been decided lightly, but it has become necessary to ensure that firstly you don’t miss out and secondly I am able to go ahead with the planning with out having concerns about the tour running smoothly because I would like to be able to enjoy seeing you as much as having you enjoy our time together.

So hopefully you can now understand why these deposits are important and we can work together to make sure my various tours are able to go ahead so we can have some good times

xoxox

Krissy.

 

Policies – Payment Methods, Deposits & Sexual Health

 

South Coast Trip

So, im slowly working my way up the South Coast. I have started in Batemans Bay then i go off to Nowra and Wollongong. I have been coming to the South Coast for work for a few years, but prior to that i had been coming here for holidays since i was a child and have always loved it.

So far i have seen some lovely gents and been spending time exploring and going to the beach seeing the weather has been so lovely. I head up to Nowra on Sunday and i am only there for 2 days which should be lots of fun. Might go spend some time at Huskisson while im in Town.

Ill be taking photos of each place i visit and might even catch some selfies which ill post on Twitter if you want to check them out.

I really should come down here more often. Its always so relaxing and i always have such a good time. Hopefully i will be able to see some new and old “friends” while passing through.

Im actually considering spending a month exploring and visiting various parts of the south coast in the near future so if you’re in the area make sure you send me an email and let me know where you are, who knows i could decide to pop in and stay for a few days

 

Understanding Boundaries & Consent – From my perspective

Over the last few weeks, I have had a number of gentlemen who have contacted me after seeing one of my ads and wanting to be friends, or want me to be their girlfriend, or even just hook up for free. I have also had a number of gents contacting me and getting irritated at me because I choose not to offer certain services such as threesomes with their mates.

Now I want to talk about boundaries and consent because I think its important to discuss it. Yes I am a sex worker. Yes I get paid cash in return for sexual services. But I still am allowed to set boundaries and expect that even though there is a cash transaction I still need to consent on what we are doing together.

Lets start with boundaries. Things such as asking about my relationship status, if I have children, do I live alone or with someone, what is my real name, pushing me to do services I have said no to, pushing for services without condoms when I have made it clear they aren’t on offer, and the list goes on. I, like many others in this industry have set boundaries in place for privacy, because we have limits, because there are things we may not be comfortable doing, maybe because providing certain things make us feel unsafe so we don’t offer it, there are many reasons why we have our boundaries in place. As a “client” it is up to you to respect those boundaries. They generally aren’t up for negotiation. And honestly you really shouldn’t get offended if we state that we don’t want to discuss certain parts of our lives or don’t offer certain services, want to only be contacted a certain way etc. These boundaries aren’t in place to offend or upset you, they are to make our time together go smoothly and be as enjoyable as possible for us both. The minute you start pushing the boundaries you make it difficult to be able to enjoy your company, why? Because if you cant respect the boundaries we have in place how do we know you aren’t going to keep pushing until you get what you want, and then things become unsafe. So, as a gentlemen caller, If we have boundaries in place all we ask is that you respect them and don’t try and negotiate them.

Now lets talk consent. When you contact an escort to spend time with her/him, remember that paying for a service doesn’t give automatic consent. Understand that consent is more then just a yes or no. Its respecting boundaries. Its understanding that during our time together, chances are we have discussed what is and isn’t on offer prior to your booking together. So if an escort tells you on the phone No I don’t offer that, it means that you don’t have consent to do that particular thing. When your spending time together your escort will have discussed their boundaries with you. What you can and cant do with them. So part of consent is that you respect those boundaries because by not respecting them, you are showing that you don’t understand that just because your paying for someones time doesn’t mean you automatically have their consent and by not respecting boundaries or the fact you still require an escorts consent to go ahead with various activities means you are getting into non consent areas and this is where things can go south quickly. So remember – Respect, Understanding boundaries and Getting Consent prior to and during our time together will ensure you have a good time.

So at the end of the day remember that while we will be friendly and interested in you during our time together we just ask that you respect the boundaries we have in place and to remember to have consent during all activities, and if you aren’t sure ask, we wont be offended we will appreciate it.

 

What You Can Learn From Sex Workers About Consent – Womanist Musings

What is sexual consent? – Reachout.com

Understanding Sex Work in an Open Society – Open Society Foundation

“Sex workers are experts at sexual consent” – Femifesto Website

Sex workers and sexual assault  – Consented

What Consent Looks Like – Rainn

With Sex Workers Too, Rape Is Still Rape – Sexuality Policy Watch

Understanding Consent – No one asks for it

Sex Workers Share stories of clients using the “L” Word – Harlot Media

 

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